Meanwhile, the scandal has died down, the media caravan has moved on. Exactly the right time to win a distance, take a deep breath and the press reports, the heated recently minds to consider new.
is meant here is not the controversy over the theories Thilo Sarrazin , however this would require also a enthysterisierten consideration. A big step in that direction Matthias Matussek has taken on much more prominent position, so to be here not discussed it.
No, it is about following and similar messages:
sex scandal in the Health Clinic on Sylt
(image, 9/13/2010)
suspected abuse in Children's Hospital - Shades of SyltWhat had happened? In the DAK Kinderkurklinik house Quickborn it should have come to sexual abuse ! Correspondingly high is the outrage, but the numerous cases of abuse in institutions of the Catholic Church and the Odenwald School are still fresh in memory. The minds are heated: for years had suffered wrong was silenced and suppressed, now is a new openness in advance of sexual exploitation of minors a stop. It is in this sense, the recently published book is meant to Stephanie Guttenberg: "Do not look away ! "No, should be looked away really illuminate any more. Rather, light is the dark bottom of the abuse, which constantly countless child's body and raped souls.
(Spiegel Online, 20.09.2010)
On closer examination of the reports was raised, however, an a stale feeling." Abuse in health clinic "that sounds like affection hypocritical leaders to seek in windy pretexts physical proximity to their charges, but actually happened, if this can be deduced from the known information, something completely different. In a group of children aged 9-13 years there has been sexual acts. 13 of the 16 housed in the housing group Children have participated in a three-bottle game, whose duties were of a sexual nature. At least one child was forced to participate against his will.
have, however, there have apparently also peer pressure. Those who have not fulfilled the tasks was "insulted coward, coward and spoil 'as been.OMG - WHO WOULD HAVE SUCH ever have guessed? Sexual games in the boys' camp! Who can imagine such a thing?
yes, who? Perhaps anyone who has even once participated in youth camps. Or - who is such a distant - who once Robert Musil novel "The has Confusions of Young Torless "(1906) read. In particular, Musil's text example illustrates dramatically how little erotic, can run all the more sadistic such sexual advances.
is But what is now the DAK, which in this case now even met has to expect? round monitoring of the wards? single accommodation? chastity belt? And why do national media reporting on this case? With regard to abuses in the Catholic Church and the Odenwald School was a broad approaches to promote, received but in this way previously unheard the opportunity to submit comments. Grievances could be disclosed, pointing to structural flaws in the systems (Catholic Church, Odenwald school). But in this case?
No doubt: Peer pressure is unpleasant, offensive. Who would know this is not even his own body? In kindergarten, school, university, work, leisure, and probably also in nursing homes: wherever people meet, builds the majority of pressure on the individual, sometimes more, sometimes less subtle. Who wants to escape this pressure, it is hard to suffer, of a quiet, another noisy. And so it is unpleasant: it is part of growing up with it. To be successful, to escape. Fighting, running away or negotiation - these are the options, each of which their time is justified. Learning to make use of its reasonable, is one of the important tasks of childhood and youth - perhaps of life in general. It is a question of education.
And this question of personal development is suddenly public. The theme fits well, is outdated. Sex sells. Of abuse is mentioned, but abused the reader, and the child victims of this case. It is being sacrificed for a second time - this time at the altar of commerce. This is not about the personal concerns of individuals, the detection of structural defects in systems that ultimately the improvement in deficit states. to better than nothing, possibly less. No, this is about the profane, it's about money!
What to once again get back to the question, now is the doctrine to be drawn? Certainly not increased monitoring of children's groups. Rather, a greater awareness of parents and carers with regard to the worries of individual children who suffer because they were the victims - not only for Doktorspielchen or spin the bottle - because it is not about sex! Above all, the willingness to have children of their freedom to try to jointly own and - yes, even sexually. And as adults have only one duty: to look away ! Specifically: Do not look down!
The most important lesson, however. for all that it takes PICTURE Co. and secure than all, the very last!
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